There are two ways that the Tantric and the Taoist philosophy would address what to do with your powerful ejaculate: • Learning how to orgasm internally and to retain your fluids • To practice mutual absorption of your essences, which replenishes both of you. I like the mutual absorption idea because there’s this evidence that semen has this wonderful anti-depressant effect when women absorb it and that’s fantastic. I know that I personally love to ingest it, be it orally, anally, vaginally, whatever—you name it, I’m into it. I always had this sense to ejaculate into a condom was a bit of a waste. It just seemed like this terrible crime against nature. Now again, I’m vindicated! These ancient ideas would say that if you were exchanging your essences, that you can actually regenerate each other. If a man ejaculates into a woman and he thinks about absorbing her fluids into him, then he will be revitalized. The key is to consciously absorb. You can really think about absorbing your partner’s fluids into the head of your cock, be it her saliva, be it her lubricant, be it her ejaculate, you can do it through your mouth, you can do it through your cock, but you’re really bringing that stuff into you. When you ejaculate, you want to think about giving your woman your life energy. If you think that your ejaculate has the power to create new life, and if you’re not making babies, then you want to be consciously giving your energy. This is the stuff that contains all the high-graded best of your physical and spiritual qualities. You don’t just want to dump it, you want to really give this incredible elixir gift that you have for your woman. Learn more at http://www.volesvbbc.org/2016/05/02/vigrx-plus-can-also-be-a-cause/
I want you to tune in to what feels right to you. I want you to experiment. What feels right to you might change moment to moment, experiment with this idea. You don’t have to even decide to not ejaculate, because if you practice the breath, eventually it just happens. When you practice that conscious, long, steady deep breathing, you will simply internally orgasm and not ejaculate just by nature of using that practice, so that you build that edge up and up and up and up, it just happens. You don’t have to force it to happen. What I want you to keep in mind is that your sperm is a vital essence and I want you to think about where and how you put it someplace. I also want you to let go of the attachment to what a typical orgasm looks like. Reframe with the idea that the sex act and orgasmic energy is there for you to harvest and to bring into your system, rather than just ejecting it out.