Sunday, March 26, 2017

Multiple orgasms are just the beginning

All of the information about the different kinds of orgasm is intended to inspire and inform you about what is possible. But try not to be attached to experiencing any or all of them.

Sometimes, just stimulating particular spots on the body will not necessarily be enough to bring about an orgasm. If a woman has trauma or limiting beliefs about her capacity to orgasm, this will likely affect her ability to orgasm. Sometimes, healing work is required to clear any issues and, therefore, enable orgasm.

Orgasm is not something to be forced, but rather something to open up to. Knowing that your orgasmic potential is unlimited and being present with whatever you are experiencing is the most powerful attitude you can cultivate towards your orgasms and everything else in your life.

So, as you can see, you have an unlimited capacity for orgasm in your body when you believe in your orgasmic potential and embody your orgasmic energy with powerful practices. We’ve come a long way since the beginning of this book, but there is still more to come. No matter how orgasmic you currently are, you can always explore different practices to allow for more orgasmic energy in your body. Learn more at and

By now, you are fully aware of the orgasmic potential of your body. Perhaps you have been practicing some of the techniques I’ve shared and you might already be experiencing some orgasms beyond the simple clitoral orgasm. Many women will be satisfied with that, and that’s okay.

But what I want to share with you is that an orgasm is just the beginning. If you are able to experience orgasm, then you can experience multiple orgasms or expand and deepen your orgasm to last long minutes, an hour or even longer. This won’t necessarily feel like an orgasmic peak anymore, but more of a long orgasmic state. And although milder, these feel more profound.

I once facilitated a sexual healing session for a German woman in her late twenties. She came to me for assistance because she hardly ever orgasmed. During our session, she was able to experience a few kinds of bodily orgasm – a long and intense orgasmic state, very deep pleasure sensations and a semi-trance state. But that was just the beginning. She stayed in a mild state of bliss for about three days that also included some pleasure sensations and a feeling of energy running through her body. Learn more at and

Many of my clients have had similar experiences to this. These women, and others who have attended my workshops, have been able to experience extended orgasms not because of anything I did but because I shared the idea that an orgasm can be a prolonged state and not just a momentary peak. Since most of my coaching work is done via Skype, I don’t even touch many of my clients; I simply coach and guide them to stay in the orgasm and to deepen it.

The important thing for you to understand is that these results are not about me or my ‘magic fingers.’ What enables these women to have these orgasmic experiences is an understanding of what an orgasm really is, some techniques that help uncover their full orgasmic potential, and the self-permission to stay in the orgasm and deepen it.

Multiple orgasms are just the beginning

Sometimes, when people become more orgasmic or start practicing sacred sexuality, they begin to experience multiple orgasms or facilitate them for others. Unfortunately, this can bring about a tendency to engage in an amateur sport known as ‘orgasm counting.’ You might hear these people say something like, ‘I gave a woman twenty orgasms’ or ‘I had thirty orgasms in one session.’

There’s nothing wrong with multiple orgasms! It’s great to have them, facilitate them for others and to feel good about it too. The problem is that many people stop here, believing that multiple orgasms are the peak of the sexual experience. If you are still able to count your orgasms, they may not be all that strong. And if he’s counting them, he’s missing the point. That is why I sometimes say, ‘multiple orgasms are for beginners.’

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